Love Don't Cost A Thing

J.Lo said "Love Don't Cost a Thing"
Mmm, let's see...

Being a wife, mother and a career woman is really exhausting! Often times I feel that I'm struggling alone in the family. But lately, I learn few things about life...and love

April, 3rd 2009
It's raining and Adam (my husband) keep saying that he would pick me up. So, after waiting in vain (in the office with 200% of boredom) he came, soaking wet.
That time I wondered, why would he came in such conditions when I knew that his job has drained up his energy for the last two months.
He said that "Kalo ibu kehujanan terus sakit, siapa yang bikinin sarapan buat ayah?."
Then he pulled out a dry raincoat for me.
He shows me that Love costs energy, love costs simpathy


April 13th 2009
I hate being late and those who like being late (sorry dwi..tapi dari dulu lo dah tahu kebenarannyakan?)
So I repeatedly saying to Adam "Jangan telat!!"
I caught in flooded road and traffic jam for over an hour. I was the one who got late!
And then there he was, sitting on his motorcycle, under the pouring rain. (I prepared myself to get yelled out)
He stood up and smile "Macet ya?" He pulled out a dry raincoat and swept the wet out off the back seat
and I stood there, starring at him- with this heavy air brushing into my lung
He shows me that Love costs understanding, love costs patience, love costs apologize without somenone who's asking for it


April 16 2009
It's dry and I've been preparing myself to get mad coz my husband was 20 minutes late.
Then he came, with broken motorcycle lamp and wounded knee.
He said "Maaf ya telat."
He got into an accident for rushing out in order to not got late in picking me up.
The other rider who's involved in that accident, insisted that he should got treatment for his wound but he refused it because he's already late for me.
So I went home with him, who's in pain
He shows me that Love costs Live and you would be a moron to think that 20 minutes is a judgement day for years of your love life


Five things that I know now:
1. If you are loved, congratulation! Cos you are the expensive fiture ever! Other are willing to give their time, energy, and Live for you. Please, realize it!!
2. If you're in love, congratulation! Cos you are the richest person in the world. You have tons of energy, endless time of your life, bunches of apologize and patience to be shared.
3. If you are in love and be love, congratulation! you are a complete soul!
4. and if you feel that your husband, spouse, parents, loving you too much in ways that you could not understand, wait! Think...you might actually learn how to love right from them
4. God has given me thoughts of life, strength and courage in the shape of a great husband. May you find your love's shape in ways that you could cherish

Enjoy life and be in love!